Sunday, June 21, 2009

Somebody's Gotta Be On Top

Ladies, help me please! I still haven't mastered the art of being on top during sex. Any tips? Hit me up in the comments. All advice is much appreciated! 


Peace and Blessings,

vixen 

12 holla'd back:

Tima And Nasha said...

Hey Vixen sweety! When I first started riding I did it in a chair because it kept me balanced and comfortable, and watch some pornos they are helpful...lol and Practice,Practice,Practice then you soon you'll be a certified D.R.(Dick Rider) ;-)
Tima

Dope Fiend said...

Yeah being on top qith him sitting in a chair (no handles) is the BUSINESSSSSSSSSSSS! Ohhhh wow! Its been too long!

Reverse cowgirl can be the business but Its kind of impersonal, not my cup of tea, but it feels good.

Oh and you know the whole hopping thing so that you get the up n down motion dudes love so much...try rocking, as in hard, in gonna f u to death rocking. Do it with attitude, give him the business the BUSINESS way.

Another one is slide all the way up to the tip of the head, you know JUST as its inside you, and rotate real slow, dip down JUUUUUUUUUST a little slide up again and rotate. If he's got a decently sizes D! it will drive him nutzo!


Oh wow, i feel sorry for myself. i would like to put down some business!

xoxo love yoooooou tooo!!!

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Teems said...

no tips... :-/ practice!

Teems said...

...but definitely cosign the chair. good when he is in the upright position.

Hard Shell w/ Soft center said...

First, you need to establish a good rhythm. Then (even though it may sound hard) while on top, slightly lift yourself up(so that your not completely sitting on him)rock back & forth while simultaneously moving up & down. If that is too hard, start with either just rocking back & forth OR moving up & down in a slow rhythmic motion.

Another good one is the froggy/frogger. If you have great balance, instead of having knees bent, squat really low on him. Then move up & down.

It takes time & practice but have fun learning in the process. :)

FYI - I don't mean to put my business out there. . . but umm... yea I can do that now since I am a reformed/saved freak! lol!

FreeSpirit said...

ii haven't EITHER.
i feel like such an AMATEUR.

Steph said...

i find that leaning over him, not sitting straight up that is, is easier. if I sit straight up, it's cause he is sitting straight up.

but umm...I hear Karrine Steffans has tips in her new book so you may want to cop that.

simone_dior said...

eh-eh-eh-aow!
everyone's given you some good advice. now top it all off w/ your favorite sex song and move to the rhythym.

1manview said...

Why are asking the ladies how to ride on top of a man? lol ... Anyway, it's all about taking Command. Not necessarily the position. Everyone has a favorite position, but if you don't take command of the pace and action, you aren't riding the bull right. A chair with no arms is a good start. You don't have to worry about keeping your balance, and you will be able to feel and watch want makes him moan, close his eyes, arch his back, which means you working it, you are taking control. When a man puts a woman on top, he wants her to take him to the top of the mountain. It's up to you how slow, how fast, how deep he rides in you, while you take him on the ride of his life. There are DVD'S out there, http://www.bettersex.com/ that's better for learning then porn...

Anonymous said...

no advice. Just wanted to read what everybody else put. hehe

Anonymous said...

you are a slow walker,but I never walk backwards.

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