Wednesday, August 27, 2008

I'm Back! Well, Kinda...

Lots of things happening in the dramatic saga called my life:


THE GOOD...
My best friend is getting married next October. I'm her maid of honor/hair stylist/makeup artist/assistant wedding planner. We picked out her dress yesterday so now we have the hard task of finding the perfect bridesmaids dresses. Wish us luck!

I recently got a promotion at my job and I have been working over 40 hours a week. This is explains why I haven't been blogging as much as I should. Sorry guys! But I'm trying. : )


THE BAD...
I've lost 35 pounds over the last 2 months. I was anorexic a couple of years ago. Cue relapse now. I'm trying to hide it from my family and it's really hard. They see right through me.

I still miss my father.

I have a sinking feeling that my boyfriend is cheating on me.


Peace and Blessings,
vixen

12 holla'd back:

Brittni [DoPeR than ur AvErAgE] said...

Congrats on ur friend's wedding!

And oh no, I hope u don't become anorexic again, that's not good, not good at all. I don't know what happened with ur dad, but I'm sure he would want you to stay healthy!

I hope you feel better girl!

And yesss, I absolutely love gossip girl!! Me 2. The books were sooo good, I read like 5 of them, that's why I was so excited when I found out they were making a show for it and the fashion is just amazing!

viavonne said...

Oh sh*t! 35 lbs in 2 months? Please, please, PLEASE don't have a relapse girl. I know it's not easy to "just eat something" but if you can't do it by yourself, SEEK HELP. Don't compromise your health, woman! It's too important.

All the best of luck to your best friend and her fiance. Hope the wedding is FAB! You seem to be the Jill of all trades with all the make up and styling you're doing. Congrats on the promotion, too!

Eb the Celeb said...

girl girl girl... plz take care of yourself and stay healthy missy

Torrance Stephens - All-Mi-T said...

girl u be jamming so is u is
or is u aint back lol


btw
happy 45th

pink said...

thanks for stopping by my spot!

if you see the relapse coming on go get help before it gets worse. we want you healthy!!

ask him (your bf) if you still feel like his lying...he probably is. trust your gut, cuz most of the time its on point. plus, if he aint doin his job im pretty sure that someone else is willing to.

come back and see me again! We havin Tell Em Why You Mad Thursdays and its getting pretty interesting!!

A.M. said...

YAY about your friend getting married. My bestfriend got married and did that shit in secret SMH.

Hey make that money, the blog world will always be here for ya.

The bad:
Yikes about the weight. I honestly don't know what to say, so how bout i just keep u in my prayers?!

About the man. Sadly, usually when we think something like that, we're ALWAYs right. Investigate. Men are stupid, it's easy for them to get caugh :/

freemanpress said...

35 pounds in 2 months is too much. I think you really need to talk to someone because if 35 pounds in 2 months is not a relapse I don't know what is.

The BF thing just confront him about what you are feeling. I think you'll be able to see the truth when he speaks.

dejanae said...

congrats to the buddy and
on the promotion

take care of yourself hon


hope ur suspicions are wrong

Crys.C said...

Congrats to your friend and for getting a promotion!!!
Gotta stay healthy hun...
I'm praying for you.
Try not to take on any additional stress.

Desy said...

i definitely see stress stress stress, which doesn't really help the health situation... but hopefully there will be more positive elements goin on in your life and writing about what you are going through may help curve the relapse... keep us up to date...

(vixenchick) said...

everybody:thank you for all your kind words. : )

DiamondsR4eva said...

I was wondering what was up with the hiatus

I'm so excited for your best friend, it must be so much fun being there at the forefront even tho all the tasks you're taking on does sound a bit stressful!

As far as the anorexia goes, have you sought out professional help or are you dealing with it on your own? I think your family would be able to help some if you let them in?

Hoping for the best as far as the boyfriend goes but if he is then you should assess whether or not its healthy/worth it to go on with the relationship