..... my first grown up club affair.
Remember how I told you guys how my 23rd birthday is this Friday? Well, I'm going out with a group of friends, and they were like 'lets go to____________ (insert club name)'. I agreed because 1) I was a little bit tipsy and 2) i didn't want to seem lame and ask, 'what's ____________ (insert club name)?' I've never even heard of this place...I had no idea it was a club. The problem is, I HATE clubs. So my question is, would I be wrong if I wanted to change the plans I made with my girls and do something completely different? Or should I just go to the club and grin and bear it? I still want to hang out with them, but just not at the club. I kinda feel like since it's my birthday celebration, should have a say-so about it, but at the same time I don't want to disappoint my friends. What would you do? Let me know in the comments.
xoxo
vixen
New job, same sickness
3 days ago
15 holla'd back:
Wow! This EXACT thing happened to me last weekend. All week me and two other friends planned to go to a club instead of prom..well, I didn't really plan it because clubs/parties/etc are not my thing. I went along with it all week, but the day before I told them I wasn't coming. I felt like I was being peer pressured and I wasn't about to change up my feelings for anyone. Sooo...if clubs aren't your thing and you don't feel comfortable, don't go. It's your birthday after all. and have a happy birthday!:)
its ur day...but why not make a weekend out of it? You kno ur choice on ur bday followed by the club the day after? Win win lol
Heyyyyy vixen girly
Ive missed u..happy early birthday and u know im takin the stance u only get 1 birthday a year so do what makes u feel good and works for U. Yeah everybody want to be in the club but if thats not your style ma...do u!! I'm fine thank u for asking about me..i got caught up in some things - well addicted- but yanno immmm bacccccc lol!
It's YOUR birthday... tell your friends it's not really your thing, and that you HATE clubs and then tell them you want to do ______(insert whatever you really want to do)... I had that same feeling, every year for my bday all my friends wanted to do stuff I didn't want to do--this year (my bday is tomorrow) I told them I want a low key birthday doing hip-hip Karaoke! :)
Be honest about it.
I hate the clubs too, and life is too short to be unhappy.
There's nothing wrong with being the birthday biatch! It's ur day, ur entitled to go where u want and not go where u don't. Otherwise u could potentially end up miserable on ur bday...and nobody wants to be miserable on their bday
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Happy Birthday!
I say do what you feel comfortable with. It's only going to spoil the trip if you got and act like a sour puss all night anyway. Go to dinner or something instead.
Grin and bear it -- uhm. hell to the naw. lol
I'm with Kitten... who wants to be upset on their bday?? Speak up!
please this shouldn't even be n effin question, last time I checked it was YOUR birthday okay...
you don't even have to be nice about it, be diva, "it's my bday and i DONT wanna go to the club." lol
grrrrrrrrlllll...its ur day and u shuld do whatevr YOU wanna do:)
Vixen sweetie! Were so happy for you! Happy Birthday!
Tima
Vixen sweetie! Were so happy for you! Happy Birthday!
Tima
girl it's your birthday...you could be like "yall know i don't do clubs" and maybe you guys have dinner/hang out for your day and if they wanna go out after it's their choice.
Or, maybe they could find a low-key club that you'd enjoy!
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